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"STAY PURE" A Monthly E-Zine For Those Recovering From Addictive Behaviors
January 2003 "First Things First" Happy New Year! BE BLESSED!
Psalm 119:9 "How can a young man keep his way pure? By living according to your word." by Author & Founder Elisabeth Freeman copyright@2002, December
Feature Article: "First Things First" by Elisabeth Freeman Couples Forum: "Working Together" by Elisabeth Freeman"Disaster At Sea" Insight From Bill BrightThe Laughing Corner: A few short jokes… Remember, laughter is the best medicine… A merry heart doeth good like a medicine! Prov. 17:22 Helpful Sites : http://www.porn-free.org; http://www.no-porn.com Now there’s a 12 step program for those who have or are concerned about HIV… HIV Anonymous… email is info@hivanonymous.com Lannie Self is back on the web with his help page for those struggling with addiction. For more information, click here… http://www.geocities.com/lannie307/restoration_fellowship.htm~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ New E-Books Available!!! To Help All Who Are Affected By This Demon Of Pornography:
"Coming Out of Sexual Addiction" ~SAVE NOW~ Just $5 Get E-Copy Now! Also available in hard copy for $9.95 plus s/h ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ "She Said, He Said, God Says" Marriage in Trouble? Porn got a grip on you or your spouse? Be set FREE today! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ***The Bible tells us that "people perish for lack of vision". Don’t perish, get a vision of healing and learn how to BREAK FREE FROM THIS STRANGLING ADDICTION! ATTENTION!!! ***We NEED More Talented Writers… for things such as poetry, singles, overcoming struggles… if you have something you’d like to share, please email me at atime2heal@chartermi.net. We will really miss Paul’s articles from porn-free.org. He is feeling called in a different direction and will no longer be writing articles for stay pure, so please if you have something to share, send it to me!!! Tell someone else how you broke the addiction or even made a little progress! Wives tell other wives how you are able to help your husband through this! Single men, share how your victories and struggles.***A special thanks for the "thank you" notes… I’m so blessed to be in such a wonderful ministry. May God bless each of your lives and families as you take a step closer to Him today!
"First Things First" What is the first thing you did on New Year’s Day? Did you stay at home and watch the ball drop with millions of other people in the world? Or did you go out on the town to celebrate with friends or someone dear to you? Whether you went out or stayed home, chances are you gave some thought to the excitement of another new year. Maybe you thought about what this year could bring. Perhaps you’d start that exercise plan and go on a diet. Or maybe you’d land that perfect job. Or possibly you’d finally get over the hump and be better off financially. God is more excited about our future than we are. In fact, it says in His word that he orders our every step. Proverbs 20:29 But sometimes we’re trying to take two steps at a time and we totally miss out. Too many times, we’re getting ahead of God. The Bible tells us clearly that we don’t know what tomorrow holds. James 4:14 Jesus was our perfect example. He got up every morning and sought God first. I know there are many things you must do every day, but first things must be first. As growing Christians we need to take one day at a time, one step at a time, and handle one project at a time. Today we overload ourselves, and although a new year can be exciting, it can also bring us into depression when we don’t fulfill everything we set out to accomplish. God has the perfect plan for your life. Ask Him what He’d have you to do in this upcoming year. And then be faithful to obey. Remember, first things first.
Couples Forum: "Working Together" With John being laid off since just before Thanksgiving, we’ve had a lot of time together. It seemed before that he’d either be sleeping, getting ready for work, or just getting home from work. We didn’t have much time and so we buried ourselves in our own work. At first it drove me crazy, having him under my thumb all day. I muttered under my breath, "Lord, please let him go back to work soon." It seemed with him here, my writing, housework, and even my time with God had been sabotaged. My time of solace was quickly replaced by noise, loud music, and talking. Being the workaholic I can sometimes be, it almost angered me that my husband wanted me to take time out for him. I mean after the writing, the housework, and taking care of the kids and numerous other things I was feeling a little overwhelmed. One day, after I vented my inner feelings and we had more than a heated discussion, John and I began to see our problem. I realized that John wanted my attention, and he realized that I wanted his help around the house. As I’ve mentioned before, John and I are complete opposites. A messy house doesn’t bother him in the least, but it erks me to the bone. I can’t just sit there and see clutter everywhere. And he could honestly sit there all day and not feel bad about lifting a finger. But when I told John how overwhelmed I was feeling, he pitched in and helped. In fact, he went crazy… he cleaned things that hadn’t been cleaned in months! Since John was helping me with the housework, laundry, and cooking, that left more time for us to snuggle up together on the couch. And with everything done I wasn’t feeling angry or guilty about it either! John and I have both learned a lesson in being there for one another. Working together is the way it has to be for a good marriage to grow! Are you sitting back letting your spouse do everything, or are you working together the way God planned? The true meaning behind "STAY PURE" S= Seek God With Your Whole Heart T= Thank God For All That He’s Done A= Ask For Deliverance Y= Yield To His Voice P= Praise Him With Songs and Hymns In Your Heart U= Use The Gift(s) He’s Given You R= Read His Word (the Bible) E= Exercise Your Freedom & Faith In Jesus *Remember, the Battle belongs to the Lord, but we must stand clothed in the armor of God! (Eph. 6) Disaster at Sea! Dr. Bill Bright Founder and Chairman Campus Crusade for Christ International Dear friends: Sonia was just about asleep when dynamite exploded and the ship she was aboard began to sink. In minutes, the Canadian missionary to the Philippines and about 200 passengers were fighting for their lives in the shark-infested waters of the Pacific. All but 48 perished, including one of the missionaries whom Sonia had discipled. As she dipped below the water for what she thought was the last time, a clear voice inside her said, "As I give you strength, keep struggling." Breaking the surface once again, she latched on to a piece of floating wood. While heaving seawater and facing death, she asked God to use her to bring others to Christ. Beside her were two weary Filipino women clutching pieces of wood. Wasting no time, she asked, "If you were to die tonight, do you know for sure that you would go to heaven?" Between bobbing waves and severe bouts with stomach cramps, she presented the gospel. In this unimaginable crisis, both women accepted Jesus Christ as their Savior. Sonia's clear-headedness, courage. commitment and focus are wonderful examples for all of us. The people you and I see every day are not clutching pieces of floating wood in the Pacific, but often what they are clutching is even more unreliable, and they are in danger of death every day. For many of them, the ship of life they were on has sunk or proven not seaworthy and they are lost in life, barely holding on. As we are given opportunity, with Sonia's courage, let us speak words of life to them. Jesus said that His words are spirit and life (John 6:63). In 2 Timothy 4:2, the apostle Paul admonishes: "Preach the Word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage-with great patience and careful instruction" (NIV). How can we be prepared at all times to preach the Word, in any circumstance that may arise? There are four prerequisites: (1) be continually filled with and under the control of the Holy Spirit, (2) study God's Word and know how to lead someone to Christ, (3) walk in obedience, and (4) walk in love. Even at the point of death, like Sonia, we must be prepared at all times to present the gospel.
Jokes From Crosswalk.com *'Twas The Day After Christmas* Twas the day after Christmas, and all through the house, Every creature was hurting -- even the mouse. The toys were all broken, their batteries dead; Santa passed out, with some ice on his head. Wrapping and ribbons just covered the floor, while Upstairs the family continued to snore. And I in my T-shirt, new Reeboks and jeans, Went into the kitchen and started to clean. When out on the lawn there arose such a clatter, I sprang from the sink to see what was the matter. Away to the window I flew like a flash, Tore open the curtains, and threw up the sash. When what to my wondering eyes should appear, But a little white truck, with an oversized mirror. The driver was smiling, so lively and grand; The patch on his jacket said "U.S. POSTMAN." With a handful of bills, he grinned like a fox Then quickly he stuffed them into our mailbox. Bill after bill, after bill, they still came. Whistling and shouting he called them by name: "Now Dillard's, now Broadway's, now Penny's and Sears Here's Levitz's and Target's and Mervyn's--all here!! To the tip or your limit, every store, every mall, Now chargeaway-chargeaway-chargeaway all!" He whooped and he whistled as he finished his work. He filled up the box, and then turned with a jerk. He sprang to his truck and he drove down the road, Driving much faster with just half a load. Then I heard him exclaim with great holiday cheer, "ENJOY WHAT YOU GOT ... YOU'LL BE PAYING ALL YEAR!" *Christmas Treats* 'Twas the month after Christmas, and all through the house Nothing would fit me, not even a blouse. The cookies I'd nibbled, the eggnog I'd taste At the holiday parties had gone to my waist. When I got on the scales there arose such a number!
As I dressed myself in my husband's old shirt I said to myself, as I only can
*The REAL Night Before Christmas* (By Parents) 'Twas the night before Christmas when all through the house I searched for the tools to hand to my spouse Instructions were studied and we were inspired, in hopes we could manage "Some Assembly Required." The children were quiet (not asleep) in their beds, while Dad and I faced the evening with dread: a kitchen, two bikes, Barbie's townhouse to boot! And now, thanks to Grandpa, a train with a toot! We opened the boxes, my heart skipped a beat - let no parts be missing or parts incomplete! Too late for last-minute returns or replacement; *Have Yourself a Microsoft Christmas* 'Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house Not a creature was stirring, except Papa's mouse. The computer was humming, the icons were hopping, As Papa did last-minute Internet shopping. The stockings were hung by the modem with care In hopes that St. Nicholas would bring new software. The children were nestled all snug in their beds, While visions of computer games danced in their heads. PageMaker for Billy, and Quicken for Dan, And Carmen Sandiego for Pamela Ann. The letters to Santa had been sent out by Mom, To santaclaus@toyshop.northpole.com - Which has now been re-routed to Washington State Because Santa's workshop has been bought by Bill Gates. All the elves and reindeer have had to skedaddle To flashy new quarters in suburban Seattle. After centuries of a life that was simple and spare, St. Nicholas is suddenly a new billionaire, With a shiny red Porsche in the place of his sleigh, And a house on Lake Washington that's just down the way From where Bill has his mansion. The old fellow preens In black Gucci boots and red Calvin jeans. The elves have stock options and desks with a view, Where they write computer code for Johnny and Sue. No more dolls or tin soldiers or little toy drums Will be under the tree, only compact disk ROMS With the Microsoft label. So spin up your drive, From now on Christmas runs only on Win95. More rapid than eagles the competitors came, Bill whistled, and shouted, and called them by name. "Now, ADOBE! now, CLARIS! now, INTUIT! too, Now, APPLE! and NETSCAPE! you're all of you through, It is Microsoft's SANTA that the kids can't resist, It's the ultimate software with a traditional twist - Recommended by no less than the jolly old elf, And on the package, a picture of Santa himself. Get 'em young, keep 'em long, is Microsoft's scheme, And a merger with Santa is a marketer's dream. To the top of the NASDAQ! to the top of the Dow! Now dash away! dash away! dash away - wow!" And Mama in her 'kerchief and I in my cap, Had just settled down for a long winter's nap, When out on the lawn there arose such a clatter, The whir and the hum of our satellite platter, As it turned toward that new Christmas star in the sky, The SANTALITE owned by the Microsoft guy. As I sprang from my bed and was turning around, My computer turned on with a Jingle-Bells sound. And there on the screen was a smiling Bill Gates Next to jolly old Santa, two arm-in-arm mates. And I heard them exclaim in voices so bright, "A MICROSOFT CHRISTMAS, and TO ALL A GOOD NIGHT!" *Enemies in the West* A knight and his men return to their castle after a long hard day of fighting. "How are we faring?" asks the king. "Sire," replies the knight, "I have been robbing and pillaging on your behalf all day, burning the towns of your enemies in the west." "What?!" shrieks the king. "I don't have any enemies to the west!" "Oh, no..." says the knight. "Well, you do now." *The Tie* A man goes into a restaurant and the maitre'd stops him. "Sorry sir, you need to wear a tie to enter". So the man goes back to his car and looks around, but there's no necktie to be found. So he takes his jumper cables, wraps them around his neck, ties a nice knot, and lets the ends dangle about. He goes back to the restaurant, where the waiter says, "Well, OK, you can come in...... ....Just don't start anything."
An elderly gentleman had serious hearing problems for a number of years. He went to the doctor and the doctor was able to have him fitted for a set of hearing aids that allowed the gentleman to hear 100%. The elderly gentleman went back in a month to the doctor and the doctor said, "Your hearing is perfect. Your family must be really pleased that you can hear again." The gentleman replied, "Oh, I haven't told my family yet. I just sit around and listen to the conversations. I've changed my will three times!" *The English Language* Let's face it. English is an odd language. There is no egg in the eggplant No ham in the hamburger And neither pine nor apple in the pineapple. English muffins were not invented in England French fries were not invented in France. We sometimes take English for granted But if we examine its paradoxes we find that… Quicksand takes you down slowly Boxing rings are square And a guinea pig is neither from Guinea nor is it a pig. If writers write, how come fingers don't fing? If the plural of tooth is teeth Shouldn't the plural of phone booth be phone beeth? If the teacher taught, Why didn't the preacher praught? If a vegetarian eats vegetables What the heck does a humanitarian eat!? Why do people recite at a play Yet play at a recital? Park on driveways and Drive on parkways How can the weather be as hot as hell on one day And as cold as hell on another You have to marvel at the unique lunacy Of a language where a house can burn up as It burns down *Possessed Computer?* For a computer programming class, I sat directly across from someone, and our computers were facing away from each other. A few minutes into the class, she got up to leave the room. I reached between our computers and switched the inputs for the keyboards. She came back and started typing and immediately got a distressed look on her face. She called the teacher over and explained that no matter what she typed, nothing would happen. The teacher tried everything. By this time I was hiding behind my monitor and quaking red-faced. I started to type, "Leave me alone!" They both jumped back, silenced. "What the . . . " the teacher said. I typed, "I said leave me alone!" The kid got real upset. "I didn't do anything to it, I swear!" It was all I could do to keep from laughing out loud. The conversation between them and HAL 2000 went on for an amazing five minutes. Me: "Don't touch me!" Her: "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to hit your keys that hard." Me: "Who do you think you are anyway?!" Etc. Finally, I couldn't contain myself any longer and fell out of my chair laughing. After they had realized what I had done, they both turned beet red. Funny, I never got more than a C- in that class. *Kiss The Mirror Good-Bye* According to a radio report, a middle school in Oregon was faced with an unique problem: A number of girls were beginning to use lipstick and would put it on in the bathroom. That was fine, but after they put on their lipstick they would press their lips to the mirror leaving dozens of little lip prints. Finally the principal decided that something had to be done. She called all the girls to the bathroom and met them there with the custodian. She explained that all these lip prints were causing a major problem for the custodian who had to clean the mirrors every day. To demonstrate how difficult it was to clean the mirrors, she asked the custodian to clean one of the mirrors. He took out a long-handled squeegee, dipped it into the toilet and then cleaned the mirror. Since then there have been no lip prints on the mirror. *Wacky Definitions* Gravity: Not just a good idea, it's the law! Gross ignorance: 144 times worse than normal ignorance. Clock: A small mechanical device to wake up people without children. Karaoke: A Japanese word meaning "tone deaf". Opera: Where a guy gets stabbed in the back and sings about it. Racial prejudice is a pigment of the imagination. "Normal": A setting on a washing machine. Health: The slowest possible rate of dying. Poverty: Having too much month left at the end of the money. Boy: A noise with dirt on it. Sleep: That fleeting moment just before the alarm goes off. Cynic: Someone who smells the flowers and looks for the casket. Witlag: The delay between delivery and comprehension of a joke. Skier: Someone who pays an arm and a leg to break them. |
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